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Saturday, August 14, 2010

Is He Cheating?

Question: I know my husband is cheating on me but I can't prove it.

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Laura NP


Eleventh Hour LLC said...

Dear Ruth,
Maybe you don't need "proof" to confirm your husband is cheating on you. If you really feel he is being unfaithful, the best course of action is to simply ask him. Try saying, "I feel that things are different between us, I don't know why, but I have a feeling that maybe you are seeing someone else, is that true?" See what he says. I'm thinking you will be able to tell if he lies when he gives his answer. The question will catch him off-guard and his response will be telling. It's not so much that you need proof, it's that you feel something is different or "wrong" between the two of you. It is something that needs to be addressed so that you can decide what's going to happen with the relationship. Allowing it to go on and on without confronting him will cause you ongoing pain and distress. It's best to deal with it now. Good luck and let us know how things go.