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Wednesday, May 2, 2012

My Husband And His Female Coworker

Question: My husband is a truckdriver. He has just decided to become a team driver with a straight woman and he did not tell me until after the fact. He swears it's for the money and he's not attracted to her but to me this is a deal breaker. Should  a decision such as this not be discussed with your wife? I am ready to divorce him.

Answer: I definitely don't think it's a deal breaker. I'm not sure why your reaction is so severe. Are you worried about your husband cheating on you? Do you trust him? Perhaps he has done things in the past that have caused you to react so negatively. He is making a career choice, not a relationship choice. Be supportive. Don't fret about something that is nothing. It is not ok to accuse him of something you think may happen in the future. It is great he has a job he likes and is able to advance into a position to make more money for your family.