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Friday, July 23, 2010

Fun or Fetish

Question: I often chat with women...nothing sexual...just chat...and I love to show them pictures of my wife(totally clean..nothing obscene) the weird part is that I love it when they tell me that she's ugly...is this wrong of me or is it an innocent fetish?

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Laura NP


Eleventh Hour LLC said...

Dear OddHusband,

It sounds like maybe you are having some guilt about this chat hobby. Does it feel "right" when you are doing it? Do you feel remorseful after it's over? If it is getting in the way of your daily life, and if it's altering your relationship with your wife, then it may be time to stop. That being said, I'm all for doing what makes you happy as long as everyone involved is consenting to the act. But, your wife is not consenting. How do you think she would feel if she found out? Is it really worth hurting her like that? Bottom line, if you want to engage in this chatting, you should get a divorce. It is absolutely not fair to your wife. It is an "innocent fetish" if you are not involving non-consenting participants. Your wife is a non-consenting participant. Think of Tiger Woods, if he wasn't married, his behaviors would have been acceptable because they were occurring between two consenting adults. The truth always comes out. Your wife will eventually find out. Good luck and let us know how it goes.